Monday, April 2, 2012

Light that for the patient " The heart light "

Light that for the patient " The heart light "
Some days before the Dragon Boat Festival such as Li, a university student just graduated comes to go to a doctor, diagnosed as " Depression " Accept for medical treatment into the department. The girl is only about 20 years old, endure insomnia, depressed puzzlement and suffering to the fullest extent for a long time, the face seems unusually wan and sallow and vicissitudes. Before being admitted to hospital, she cut the wrist and committed suicide because it is wrecked that it is unable to stand this kind of spirit, fortunately is sent the hospital to rescue in time by family, have just avoided tragic emergence. Exchanging with girl can find out, she is a girl with very strong individual character. Family circumstances superior, achievement a outstanding one pieces of pet of God undoubtedly in she, are pursued and paid close attention to everywhere. Perhaps it is too outstanding cause, the classmates around will often throw to envy it is even jealous sight. So she feels all classmates are false display of affection, the less consider worth doing keeping in touch with them. What aggravated detested the sense day by day, have been broken off by her finally and contacts among all classmates. But time is long, she feels that there is a kind of loneliness isolated. Just here at that time, a boy rich in talent entered into her bottom of heart quietly. Perhaps it is that the fond dream is fragile, half a year later, the boy leaves her, she collapsed after a single setback from then on. Analyze after setback of girl go through, we think, cause whom she have a nervous breakdown chief the intersection of she and the sense of superiority that regard as a pride in chief culprit the most unanimously. She wants to fully show one's own sense of superiority, so she would rather be proud and aloof, unwilling with those " ordinary people " Classmate associate together. Baffled in the face of the emotion, she will feel face is lost to the limit, suffer a crushing defeat, self-respect and impressive and dignified manner have all gone in seconds. A girl with extremely strong sense of superiority can not bear this kind of blow. Through the treatments of more than ten days, the girl's insomnia got obvious improvement, but mood is still low and pessimistic. For this reason, we have strengthened and dredged and attended to, hope her psychology through persuading the love with the love, wake the true feelings up with the true feelings. I say to her: "Only wide open and harbour between men, treat each other sincerely, could receive respect and understanding. Light that kindhearted heart light, use the warm and bright emotion good at treating human world sincere. The society loves others, has just learnt to love oneself. " Dredging through the psychology of following in order and advancing step by step, with sincere patience, the girl holds the full and grateful tear in eyes, say to us: "Have never expected the words of a mat of warm hearts, can save a desperate life into new born samsara unexpectedly. " Through the above-mentioned embodiments, have fully proved necessity and importance that the psychology attends to. It is embodiment and agglomeration of the human bright emotion that sincere soul communicates, strengthen the psychology to attend to in the nursery work, can get up and unify to one pair of results, the curative effect of getting twice the result with half the effort. (Author's unit: Stay in the mental hospital of city of horse's shop in Henan Province)

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