Tuesday, September 25, 2012

China is before examination How do parents accompany the child to adjust the good state together

China is before examination How do parents accompany the child to adjust the good state together
Psychology that parents will influence the child in child's every word and action, every gesture before examination through the psychological mechanism of implying, imitating, infecting etc.. So, not only before examination not only the child should adjust the good psychology in China, parents should also adjust the good psychology. Then, in month of one before examination of China, how could parents help children to adjust the psychology? 1.The ones that prevented to the child paid close attention to the fact excessively some parents pay close attention to the child excessively, the child washes a cup of warm milk for a moment while reviewing lesson, giving and sending a water-melon for a moment, some parents even accompany one's spouse who is studying abroad by the child. Such excessive care child's method makes children produce the pressure, think, once does not do in the test well, how to let parents' care down. 2.Prepare before examination in a small medical kit, probably some little trouble appears on the body when the child prepares for the examination, uncomfortable, etc such as cold, intestines and stomach. The child is very busy with reviewing, there may not be hospitals on time in these little trouble. So, the family prepares a small medical kit, once the child presents some discomfort on the body, taking some medicines can be solved, it is unnecessary to run in the hospital. 3.It help adjust child by psychology in in before examination,it is chat, have a heart-to-heart talk with child frequently not to want parents, time after spend, have a meal have a walk, communicate with each other, let child say at heart pressure, at heart what, worries at heart, say that coming out is half which is done a good job of success of psychological regulation. Certainly, parents communicate and want to stress time, place and condition with the child's psychology before college entrance examination, it can't be that the child in and have a chat about a few words while reviewing lesson. 4.The high school entrance examination close on to allow children to lose the temper, some parents find examinees will lose the temper for no reason at home, very anxious, do not know how to treat this kind of behavior of the child's. The teacher proposes, parents want to allow children to lose the temper, don't go to adjust children for one's own goal too high.

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